Comments on: Quick Tip #3: There Is No Bank

By: John Doe

John Doe — Tue, 10 Feb 2009 09:25:25 +0000

I sure as hell wouldn’t keep points in the bank with a woman who thought that way, but I also won’t date a woman who forgets the nice things I do for her, especially inside a week. I’m damned nice to my women, and if they forget it, I’m gone — there is no acceptable excuse for ingratitude.

Thankfully the woman I’m with now *does* remember. Sometimes it doesn’t *matter*, but usually only if something’s wrong. Everyone has bad days.

By: dagoth_guth

dagoth_guth — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 05:10:58 +0000

Does this system have a double standard or is applicable to both people in the relationship. If the female in the relationship gives me a ride to work on Monday, records my favorite TV show on Tuesday without me asking, gives me a backrub on Tuesday, plays my favorite song for me on Wednesday ect… does she have zero points on Saturday as well?

By: Flowers On A Friday

Flowers On A Friday — Fri, 21 Sep 2007 15:36:58 +0000

square peg, round hole….even a chimp can tell you that ain’t going to work.

if people weren’t so scared of being alone then they may take their time and make better choices. what’s the rush? enjoy the trip.

By: DJ

DJ — Fri, 21 Sep 2007 15:19:53 +0000

I never knew how to express this. Thank you.

By: morinn

morinn — Fri, 21 Sep 2007 03:10:57 +0000

wow Anna, for how long have you been married?

By: Granny Annie

Granny Annie — Thu, 20 Sep 2007 11:29:46 +0000

This had needed explaining for a long time and you have answered well. The only exception to your point system — #3 deserves a greater number of points. It far exceeds receipt of flowers.

By: Anna

Anna — Thu, 20 Sep 2007 03:48:40 +0000

the funny thing about my life is that I don’t have to ask for washing dishes and buying me flowers, I am lucky that my husband does not like washing dishes (that is what he tells me) but does them with passion because does not want me to do it – if you know what you mean. Sometimes I have to tell him, its my turn, it is never my turn….lol. btw I do dishes when I am alone…I guess that is us, the two nuts…we just opposite of what most other couple are…anna

By: Linda

Linda — Thu, 20 Sep 2007 02:03:40 +0000

In our house have it sorted. Him happy = food and sex. Her happy = motto “Happy Wife Happy Life”. So much easier all round. Although, it did take a while for him to realise just HOW important the “Happy Wife,Happy Life” was.

By: Piotr Reysner

Piotr Reysner — Wed, 19 Sep 2007 18:31:53 +0000

all right, I was just about to start complaining about how totally unfair that is. Then I realized that the purpose of your post was not to determine fairness, but to educate men on reality. You know what? I appreciate that.

Now on the flip side — for us men, if women want points, we need two things — food and sex. As with your viewpoint, no value judgment is permitted on this. It is just a reality. If you feed him and f- him, he will be happy.

Oh, and we operate on a similar point system. There is no bank.

By: Girl Fren'

Girl Fren' — Wed, 19 Sep 2007 15:03:08 +0000

…c’mon, work with me, People…just think of Chick Points as having a ‘use by’ date. When you earn a few, bask in your success use them before sundown. You could parlay their use into, say, multiple orgasms for said Chick and yourself, thereby racking up another batch of points. Mmmm. The gift that keeps on giving: Chick Points.

Jayne, Could I post that to my Wish List on YouCouldGetMe.com?